Why Asking “What’s This?” Often Backfires With Late Talkers
If your toddler isn’t talking much yet, you may have found yourself asking, “What’s this?” — hoping to hear a word.
But for many late talkers, that well-intentioned question quietly shuts things down.
In this episode, Erin Hyer — speech-language pathologist with over 35 years of clinical and real-life experience — explains why asking for words too early can work against development, and what actually helps toddlers feel ready to communicate.
You’ll learn:
Why silence doesn’t mean your child won’t talk — just that the foundations are still forming
The difference between testing and participating in early communication
The five key areas that support speech before words appear
How attention, imitation, play, daily rhythms, and nervous system regulation all shape language development
This episode isn’t about doing more or pushing harder. It’s about creating the conditions that make communication feel safe, interesting, and worth the effort.
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Erin busts myths and explains the WHY behind the WHAT - so
parents are confident their toddler engages with the world with ease.
